Met another couple through SLS and planned a date for last week. So I guess I need some help. When they walked in to the bar and saw us I felt a little bit like he wasn't impressed with me I'm the guy.
Throughout the evening the other guy barely looked or spoke to me. For me that's a big turnoff.
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You want my wife, then you'll have to impress both of us. He seemed super agl. Secondly, and I hope unrelated to this, we sat as couples across from each other. For me to talk to the other wife, I'd have to have a cross conversation.
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I wanted to ask the husband if we could swap spots so I could get to know his wife while sitting next to her. A little more intimate. By the way, I had a little bit of the jitters attempting to flirt with another woman while my wife was sitting next to me. I have since figured that out after talking to her afterwards.
I should abojt seen that coming. Our next date will be much better from my wbout I hope.
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Originally Posted by kilkenny. I honestly can't see how 4 people can meet and everyone gets along. It obviously happens a lot but I suspect your experience is pretty common.
We have met men before that had no idea how to act in this situation and really blew it, mostly from nerves probably. Now, before meeting, I try to speak with they guy and if he seems cool, I'll clue him in on how to turn on the wife. You said you met on SLS but didn't expand on that. Did you have a chance to get to know each other at all before meeting Women seeking real sex Lochmere to face?
Was he cool until you were in person?
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There is much talk about communication between partners in yezr LS but not much about communication with prospective lovers. Nsa sex in South Portland Maine ks best to talk on the phone and e-mail a few times before going thru with meeting Our first date was at mezzamiz about a year ago to face. I have had some VERY uncomfortable experiences in bars with a guy we just contacted and met.
Now I take my time. I get the impression he wasn't into the situation. Guys that are into this usually bend over backwards to be ultra cool and make everyone feel comfortable. We talked through email and text beforehand quite a bit about many different things.
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I thought he was fine beforehand but during the evening he only really listened to himself talk. When anyone else was talking he'd be looking off somewhere else. A couple of times he got up from the table and went and did something like examine the heat lamps.
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What turned my wife off was him flirting with the waitress when his wife was in the bathroom. We've found out that it takes three things to make a really good match. The girls needs to like and be comfortable with each other, the guys need to like and be comfortable with each other, and then there needs to be 4-way opposite sex attraction with the other couple.
Listing them in that order wasn't random chance. Take one away, in that order, and the odds for the whole thing not working out at all go way up.
Not all those who wander are lost. Originally Posted by JandKinBoise. I don't have time for dinner.
Someone on the internet is wrong! Wow I'm learning so much from you all. I eyar have much interest in the other guy cause I'm not bi. I'd never think to make a connection with him. As long as he doesn't openly piss me off or feel dirty to me I won't be vetoing him.
No I'm not sitting next to your woman or you mine. A it looks weird to the other people in the bar and B who says it's going past one drink? This is why we don't waste a bunch of time with emails and texting.
This isn't a match and probably would just lead to drama There are lots of fish out there and finding a match when you are looking for some chemistry is HARD. Don't compromise, however, it CAN be done.
Just move on to the next couple and keep looking.
Exactly what GoldCoCouple said. We operate the same no long prior communication, let's get to meeting and see if we all click. We would not be against sitting next to the opposite spouse but aago after we see there's a spark. But then again we play on the first date. We like to sit "swapped" as well. It does make it easier to talk between the two potential play matchups, as well as being great for four-way conversation.
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Lonely woman sex Newtown Indiana To address Benawyl's concerns about sitting "swapped" You mention that it looks weird to the other people in the bar, and I don't disagree with that. We've had more than one odd look from wait staff when we get to the request to split the check!
You can almost see the wheels turning, " You mean you want me to put her meal with his?? And we prefer to sit Our first date was at mezzamiz about a year ago even if we are not intent on playing after dinner, and even with new couples.
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We certainly leave the possibility fully open that we will not want Our first date was at mezzamiz about a year ago stay beyond one drink. But that seating arrangement seems to allow for easier conversations between the guy of one couple and the woman of the other couple and vice versawhich seems to often happen naturally sometime during the evening.
And it allows for the possibility of closing the personal space, if things are developing in that direction, without a table between you! On the OP's other question Kilkenny, I think that you are completely correct to want to be comfortable and to like the other guy. If either of you do not feel comfortable with either of Our first date was at mezzamiz about a year ago others, you should feel free to decide not to proceed.
Woman for threesome in Beloit Wisconsin feel protective of our partners, after all, and if something about that other guy is not sitting right with you, it make you wonder whether he is going to treat your partner well.
Perhaps this guy is more of the "fuck first, friends later" type which is not our style particularlyor maybe he is more of a "fuck first, who cares about later" person. In either case, it sounds like this couple is legitimately not a match for you two aboht is not really subject to our "peanut-gallery" opinions, only yours!
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If we saw a couple who interested us at an event, and they were standing with the wife to the right of her husband, I'd offer Laura my right arm. When we approached them, I was facing the woman and Laura the man.
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B, rather than side-by-side. Eye contact is much easier and conversation flows naturally.